How do you enter a room filled with people? Do you slide the door open quiety and try to sneak in as quickly as possible? Or do you fling the door open boldly and announce to the crowd, "I'm here!"?
Which do you think stars do? That's right -- they make sure everyone knows they're in the room. They expect attention and they make sure they get it.
You can't blend in with the crowd if you want to star in your own life. Here are three techniques to help you be noticed in the room.
1. As you walk to the door, take a deep breath. Remind yourself that you've been invited to the party or meeting because people wanted you there. And they will want to know when you've arrived.
2. If you're greeted at the door, shake the person's hand. Introduce yourself in a loud, clear voice that will carry a few people away, so everyone will know you're there. If you know your greeter, say "Hi, Joe (or whatever his or her name is) in a clear voice. Ask to meet everyone.
3. Just before going through the door, adjust an article of your clothing, or shift your pad from your right hand to your left. If you're physically doing something when you're going through the door, you will be less nervous about shaking hands.
Remember, when you're watching a play or movie you know who the star is from their first entrance. How are you entering the room?
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